At least one in seven people will experience stalking at some point in their lives, with the psychological toll often leaving long-lasting effects on victim-survivors. While national statistics show that one in five women are affected, experts and campaigners are highlighting the urgent need to recognise and support male victims—a group often underrepresented in both reporting and support systems.
Stalking can take many forms: unwanted messages, persistent following, obsessive behaviours, and coercive control. For many men, the stigma attached to speaking out—particularly when the perpetrator is female or someone known to them—can be a significant barrier to seeking help.
“It’s a silent crisis,” said a spokesperson for a leading stalking support organisation. “Men often suffer in silence because they don’t see themselves represented in conversations about stalking. But their trauma is no less real.”
Victims’ charities stress that the effects of stalking on men can be just as devastating, with experiences often impacting mental health, employment, relationships, and overall wellbeing.
Organisations such as the Suzy Lamplugh Trust, Paladin National Stalking Advocacy Service, and Respect Men’s Advice Line offer confidential, non-judgmental support. For many men, speaking anonymously to a charity helpline is the first vital step in getting the help they need.
As National Stalking Awareness Week continues, campaigners are urging anyone experiencing stalking—regardless of gender—to report incidents, seek professional advice, and understand that they are not alone.
If you or someone you know is affected by stalking, you can call the National Stalking Helpline on 0808 802 0300 or visit www.suzylamplugh.org. Men can also contact Respect Men’s Advice Line on 0808 801 0327.